A lot of my friends or co-workers are pregnant or just had babies.
Another group of my friends are single and going to baby showers and have no idea what to buy for the moms-to be.
Therefore, I have decided to compile a list of what I think were MUST-HAVES during those crazy months of being a new mom. I know that some of these items are not truly must-haves in the sense that you can raise a child without them. However, why make life harder than it needs to be? This is what I would spend my money on.
Crib, dresser, changing table
- These are kinda a given. Your baby needs somewhere to sleep. Ours did not like his crib AT ALL until about 4 months. Some babies like it right away and if your baby does be thankful, you’re one of the lucky ones.
- We bought a changing table/dresser combo. We actually found our set at Costco for a really good price and are very pleased with the quality. It is a Cafe Kids set that converts into a toddler bed, and then a full size bed when they are bigger. You can find the it here.
- When getting a crib, get a few fitted sheets. You will need extra for accidents and when you can’t wash right away. You DO NOT need a comforter or bumper. You can see a bumper and comforter in the picture but our son has never had either in his crib. It is just not worth the risk.
- You need diapers in multiple sizes. Remember some babies skip the newborn stage all together and while your baby is in the hospital, the hospital will provide diapers and wipes.
- For our little one he stayed in the size 3 and 4 size diapers the longest. They grow really quickly in the beginning so you may not want to go too crazy with the value packs because you don’t want to end up with diapers you can’t use. However, when they are really little you will feel like you are changing them nonstop so a value pack is a wise buy. Just don’t buy several of the same value pack at once until you have a good idea of how fast your little one is growing.
- Also, in the beginning save yourself the trouble of wondering if your baby is wet and get the diapers with the wetness indicator. DO IT! When babies are tiny, the amount of urine produced is tiny. This means it can be hard to tell if they are wet or not. In the beginning their skin is sensitive and you do not want even a tiny bit of urine sitting on their precious little skin.
- I recommend starting with sensitive wipes, so if your baby skin is rash-prone, you wont have to worry about fragrances or additives irritating his/her skin.
- I used Pampers Sensitive and then eventually switched to Kirklands wipes from Costco because they do the job and are cost-friendly.
- We used the Fisher Price Snug-a-Bunny sleeper. You can find it at Target or Babies R Us. This is great for when they are really tiny. It is small enough to carry from room to room or take on the go. We used it in the beginning when we wanted him in our room at night. Later, we made the transition to the crib (in the nursery). Here Landon is not strapped in, but it does come with a strap so you can rest easy your baby will not wiggle out.
- Trust me, you want this. This will help keep your baby happy in the days that they aren’t really able to do much. I want to say we used this for at least the first four months. It helped so much because your arms WILL NEED A BREAK. I used to talk, sing, and play with him while he was in his little seat. He loved it!
- There are some really fancy chairs, you really just need one that vibrates and is safe. The flashing lights and sounds are great but your baby will respond more to the vibration then anything else. The vibration helped soothe Landon when he was colicky.
- When I say this, I mean a Moby wrap or Baby Bjorn. This makes trips so much easier. Having your hands free is so nice when you are at the grocery store. When at a department store, it is also nice to go between isles without worrying about a stroller (its amazing how tight some isles are in department stores; you never notice untill you can’t go down one with a stroller).
- Infants love to be worn. It makes them feel safe and gives them comfort being so close to mom or dad.
- If I had to chose one I would chose the Baby Bjorn, hands down. It was just easy. I have been told recently, however, that it may not be good for hip development. So I will have to look into that.
- Most important thing is that it is safe. Do not buy a used car seat. You do not know if it has been in an accident or not. If a car seat has been in an accident it may be (and should be considered) defective. If you are ever in an accident (even a fender bender), you should file a claim with insurance and they will replace your car seat. DO NOT GAMBLE with your baby’s safety. We chose to get a travel system, this includes stroller, carrier, and base for the carrier (car seat).
- When you install your car seat you can take your car to a local fire department and they will verify that it has been installed correctly.
- The hospital will not let you leave with your baby unless you have a car seat installed.
- A side note: Children are to be rear-facing until 2 years of age.
A toy for the car
- This made a huge difference in our travels. We got a simple toy that strapped across the handle to the carrier (that hooked into the base of our car seat). Landon could bat away at the toys and forget that he was by himself in the backseat. You can purchase the one we got here.
- Our baby would ONLY sleep swaddled. If he got out of his swaddle, he would wake up. Our best, best, best friend EVER in the beginning was the Swaddle Pod. It is so easy and your baby cant wiggle its arms out. They sleep better and you will actually get some sleep. I think Landon loved this because it reminded him of the way he felt in my belly. We were all so sad when he out grew it. They only come in a small sizes. If your swaddling skills are sub-par, buy one of these. They are AWESOME!!
- These are multipurpose. Use them for swaddling, for covering up baby in the car seat, to lay down on a cold changing table, etc.
Baby Einstein Baby Mozart DVD
- We inherited several Baby Einstein DVDs from another mom and OMG did my baby love the Baby Mozart one. They are actually really good for your baby. They get their minds going and truly fascinate them. This particular one plays classical musical while looping through images of animals, puppets, trains, and all kinds of interesting things for baby to discover. Read more about it here.
- For me this was a necessity. I know some people may use a sink to wash their babies, but at my house my sink stays full of dishes. Having a little tub with a sling made the first baths so easy. My little man always loved bath time and I think that part of it was he was so comfy in his tub.
- It’s so nice to take your baby out of the tub and have that perfect hooded baby-sized towel to wrap him/her up in. Little baby wash clothes are also so practical and take up such little space to store.
No tears baby shampoo & Mustela
- This is a given but I had to list it. I love the bedtime bath body wash and lotion. It smells so good. I love lavender and I swear it helps my little man sleep. I use Mustela shampoo because it works great for cradle cap and doesn’t smell bad. It foams up nicely too.
- You never know when your little one may get sick but it’s good to be prepared. I suggest keeping a bottle of infant Tylenol, ibuprofen, and gas drops or gripe water on hand. You don’t want your baby to suffer any longer than needed so have medicine on hand to give when needed. Your pediatrician can tell you the correct doses for your babies weight and age. Most often they will have a chart on their website that is easy to access.
Mom’s out there, what are you must-haves when caring for your baby? What products have you found to make life easier?
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